Retention and relationships with customers in social media
Published on November 19th, 2010 by Nick Shin
Last week, #smmeasure Twitter chat community member @sabrina_scott suggested the topic of employees use of social media. This week, another member helped bring a topic into discussion regarding retention and relationships with customers in social media. Thanks to @IraKates for asking engaging questions to the community, making #smmeasure a top-trending topic in Canada!
#smmeasure chat #17 recapA key part of engaging in social media is building relationships. With @IraKates leading the way and helping me create a topic of discussion, the #smmeasure community jumped right into the conversation. If you have any topics you think would be great to add to our weekly discussions, tweet @marketwire. Take a look at the full #smmeasure chat transcript.
Q1: In 3 steps, explain how to build relationships with customers in social media?
- @JonClements: “Find, listen, engage.”
- @sabrina_scott: “1. Engage + provide useful info. 2. Thank for mentions + RT’s. 3. Know when to take convo offline to provide more info if needed.”
- @grmeyer: “1. listen 2. be sincere 3. respond appropriately”
- @mhandy1: “Step 1: find Step 2: know who they are Step 3: add value”
- @toddysm: “I will add – be personal also; don’t sound like ‘the company’”
- @40deuce: “1. Listen… a lot. 2. Have real conversations with real people. 3. Repeat steps 1 & 2 to infinity”
- @liisamarjatta: “Listen. Learn. Share. (repeat, would be a 4th step!)”
- @casiestewart: “the same way you do offline – be nice, be kind, share, be honest, be YOURSELF, make friends”
- @JPedde: “Step 1 Find, Step 2 Listen/Talk, Step 3 Bring online relationships offline if you can.”
- @theelusivefish: “step 1) answer ‘who are you?’ ‘what do you want?’ ‘why are you here?’” “step 2 … now that you know, talk to them. Address needs where you can. Help them help themselves where you can’t.” “step 3: not really a step but a part of it all – know what you want this relationship to be and then be consistent about it.”
- @jgombita: “if a company account, use social media to give a sense of the people working in the company and its place in community.”
Q2: What guidelines do you have for unfollowing/unfriending someone? Via @IraKates.
- @toddysm: “Not getting useful information – lot of spam and promotional messages; irrelevant info too”
- @TsarKasim: “If a user becomes consistently irrelevant to me (e.g. uninteresting tweets), I’ll likely unfollow them.”
- @brightmatrix: “Unfriending, etc. should always be considered carefully from professional side. What risk will result to your reputation?”
- @SunnyinSyracuse: “When they are a monologue, not a dialogue, lack any value or consistently are aggressive w/others…they get an unfollow.”
- @Wedding_crasher: “block for spam or bots, unfollow for abuse, unethical posts, and trouble makers”
- @JonClements: “Corporate account unfriending seems heavy handed unless verbal abuse involved.”
- @jgombita: “follow for content. But if I engage on several occasions & don’t get a follow-back, sometimes I unfollow”
- @shankell: “I don’t follow until a new follower engages.”
Q3: Do you measure people who unfollow you? 3b. What tool do you use? Via @IraKates.
- @WriterChanelle: “There are some who just won’t follow back. They follow 120 of their 2000 followers. I put them on a list.”
- @smitty1966: “Following and unfollowing is like voting, highly democratic but there is no winner. Because number of followers is a weak measure”Note: Some of the tools mentioned for knowing who unfollowed inactive accounts: Qwitter, http://who.unfollowed.me, untweeps.com, TwUnfollow.com.
Q4: Would you ever contact a user to figure out why they unfollowed/unfriended? Via @IraKates.
- @Mitch_M: “I don’t worry about how many people are following or unfollowing me; just have to be who I am” “I believe if you watch unfollowers too much ull start losing the essence of who U are”
- @RightToPlayIntl: “Often the decision to unfollow is pretty personal – most want to avoid that confrontation.”
- @JPedde: “Eh, I have no shame. I like feedback, will sometimes inquire if really like the person. It’s ultimately up 2 that person tho”
- @WriterChanelle: “I’d like to hear reasons, too, because I like feedback, but i don’t think people like to state why they unfollow”
- @ken_rosen: “if I clearly represent a corp brand, for sure. Chance to improve. If a personal brand, no”
- @WesYee: “I wouldn’t, but if contacted I’d explain why I UN’ed.”’
- @djwald: “Would anyone email someone whos opted out of their email marketing? HA! NO!” “you probably want to know why they left… just like a customer leaving. It’s a retention problem that needs to be solved.”
Q5: What is an effective measure to use to identify if the problem is internal, in the marketplace or with the user? Via @IraKates.
- @grmeyer: “perception = 80% reality, so if your customers think you have a problem, you have one.”
- @brightmatrix: “I think the only measurement here is the no. of users with problems. Determining its source is a tactic, right?”
- @karimacatherine: “Dead-weight followers are probably not the greatest metrics. Important to put in context with specific objectives”
Words of wisdom courtesy of @toddysm: “About the listening part – there is a saying ‘people have two ears and one mouth – use proportionally’”
#smmeasure Twitter chat-inspired blog post (thanks!): @mhandy1 on the 3 stages of social media http://bit.ly/aWPfgI
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Due to the Thanksgiving holiday in the U.S., #smmeasure chat will be off next week. See you Thursday, December 2!
Nick








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